I've been exactly where you are - second guessing everything, running on empty, not trusting a single decision.
Here's how I found my way back, and how I can help you do the same.

For the last 15 years, I've said repeatedly, "All this stuff happened to me for a reason. No one experiences this much sh1t, to not pass on what they've learned." And here we are.
Let me take you back. I was a very active child - never stopped, constantly told to quieten down or stop fidgeting. Life was exciting, full of wonder, and I was ready for all its challenges.
And the challenges came thick and fast. My parents got divorced and Mum had a breakdown. My sister was born with a life-threatening condition which came with a side-helping of depression. She was hospitalised numerous times and struggled with her mental health her whole life – she sadly passed in 2019. I ended up in an abusive relationship for 10 years, had a serious accident in 2005, and struggled with my mental and physical health for years afterwards.
In 2013, after seven years of unexplainable pain, GP visits, and hospital appointments, I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Fibromyalgia treatment focused on management and pain relief - neither of which helped. I was told to say goodbye to the things I loved because living a "normal" life just wasn't going to be my experience I tried everything to fix it - every pain clinic, workshop, diet, supplement, treatment. I was taking so much medication, and none of it worked. I slowly spiralled into depression, feeling hopeless and unable to help myself.
Then, by chance, I met a physiotherapist at my gym who introduced me to Myofascial Release. It changed absolutely everything. I began a quest to heal myself as naturally and holistically as possible. I became obsessed with understanding how our minds and bodies are connected, how trauma shows up physically, and how we can rewire our brains to create real, lasting change.



My own experiences led me to study neuroscience, mindset work, natural remedies, nervous system regulation and much more. I started my pole dance business in 2012 and over 15 years I supported thousands of women in transforming not just physically but mentally and emotionally. Doing this work and seeing the impact it was having on students, inspired me to train as a life coach. I learned what actually works when it comes to rebuilding confidence, reconnecting with yourself, and creating a life that feels good again.
And now, I've distilled all of that - 15+ years of lived experience, professional training, and helping thousands of women - into my signature online course, Self Growth 101. It's everything I've learned about resilience, confidence, pain (mental and physical), and what it takes to feel like yourself again. It's built for real life (every lesson in Self Growth 101 is less than 15 minutes long) because I know what it's like to be exhausted, overwhelmed, and running on empty.
I survived for a reason. And that reason is to help women like you - second-guessing everything, overwhelmed, exhausted, not trusting yourself.
Maybe now, it's time for you to put yourself first.

If you're feeling lost, overwhelmed, and like you've forgotten who you are - I see you. I've helped thousands of women go from doubting every decision to feeling confident, calm, and in control. Here's what I know about transformation:
You're not broken. You're just exhausted, overwhelmed, and running on empty.
Tiny steps work. You don't need a complete life overhaul. You need practical tools that fit into your real life.
Your intuition is still there. It's just buried under years of putting everyone else first. We'll reignite it.
Confidence isn't about being perfect. It's about trusting yourself again - even when things are messy.
You deserve to feel like you. Not the version everyone else needs. The real you.
Change takes time - but it's possible. I'm living proof. And I'll help you get there too.
That's why I do this work. Because you're not alone. Because I see you. And because I know, without a doubt, that you can feel like you again.


I've distilled everything I've learned into Self Growth 101, my signature online course. It's the course I wish I'd had when I was lost, overwhelmed and in pain. Practical, compassionate, and built for real life.
Join the waiting list now to be first in line.

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